Should I smile in my photos, and can I wear sunglasses?
It’s a classic dating profile dilemma: smile or smolder?
Shades on or off?
The truth is, there’s no one-size-fits-all rule, but there is a signal your photos send, whether you realize it or not.
A smile, when genuine, is one of the clearest indicators of approachability. It shows warmth, openness, and even playfulness. But if forced, it can feel like a mask - and that misalignment can create confusion, not connection.
The goal isn’t to paste on a grin. It’s to choose photos that match the vibe you actually want to give off. We call this your Aura of Intent - the emotional tone your photos carry before you even say a word.
So if you’re going for “witty and grounded,” that half-smirk might land better than a wide grin. If you’re aiming for “friendly and adventurous,” then yes, let those teeth shine.
As for sunglasses: they can absolutely add aesthetic appeal or give a candid, relaxed feel, but if every photo hides your eyes, it creates distance.
Humans are wired to search for connection through the eyes. So while one sunglass pic is fine (especially if it adds character), balance it with photos where people can actually see you. The real you.
Bottom line: Don’t think in terms of rules—think in terms of impression. The right mix of smiling, neutral, candid, and expressive photos tells a fuller story. One that feels intentional and confident without trying too hard.
Not sure what vibe your photos are giving off? Let LoveLens decode your Aura of Intent and show you which images spark connection.